“good kid stuff”

November 18, 2010 - Leave a Response

What I love most about my job is the time I spend with the children.  Today I joined one of the Pre-K classes for lunch.  The children are currently in a phase of inviting others to their house or asking if they can visit a friend’s house.  I was included in this conversation this afternoon.  The children asked if I have “good kid stuff” at my house, and I couldn’t help but ask what that means to them.

  • toys
  • Dunkin’ Donuts
  • lunch: cupcakes, peas, apples, a little bit of ketchup, ham, chickpeas, pizza
  • “and they also like pasta”
  • kites
  • pigs, but pigs are not for eating
  • snakes (this one surprised me)
  • goldfish pretzels

The students told me that if I had all of these things, they would like to come to my house to play.  I guess I have some shopping to do!

How Recess Helps Kindergarteners

October 26, 2010 - Leave a Response

They build Lego block towers and fiddle with Play-Doh.

They serve up plastic steaks and plastic fruit in miniature kitchens.

They tinker with pattern blocks, stick faces on Mr. Potato Heads and put on puppet shows.

And when it comes time for recess, they spill out onto the playground to test themselves on the monkey bars, to run like a stampeding herd of bison after a wayward tennis ball or to cluster in a huddle around a tree that, depending on the day, may be a place that belongs only to the girls.

Play — in all its various iterations — is an essential component of kindergarten. And though it is sometimes criticized by pennywise critics who question the value of taxpayer-funded classrooms for young children, educators and scholars say play is the language kindergartners know best, making it a great tool for learning.

At Indianapolis Public School 61, kindergartners hear stories. They practice writing their letters. They work on their numbers. But they also get time to play. And it is amid the block towers and the playground games that teachers here say some essential learning takes place.

Teacher Carolyn Kendall makes time for her kindergarten students to play a couple of times per day, not to mention recess. She looks at a boy stacking blocks and sees a child whose hand muscles are getting a workout. She looks at a little girl sorting colored animals into lines and sees a child learning early math concepts. And, out on the playground, when she watches her students forming teams and enforcing their own playground rules, she sees a society in miniature — building relationships, learning to get along.

Teacher Shirley Chappell says play, in children so young, is intimately connected with learning. Watching her students climb like ants on the jungle gym, she sees children whose hands and arms are getting a workout that strengthens them for the skill of writing, and tests eye-hand coordination that aids in reading. She also sees children, many of them from apartment complexes where it is not always safe to send children outside, exercising, enjoying fresh air and getting a chance to grow in ways only the playground can teach.

“For some of these kids,” Chappell said, “this is the only outside time they get.”

Indiana University early education Professor Mary Benson McMullen sees two kinds of play at work in schools: the kind of directed play teachers use to teach specific skills and the kind of unscripted free play that children choose. Both, she says, are very important to the development of young children. But she says the importance of free play shouldn’t be underestimated.

“People, from the very beginning, need to learn how to get along together,” she said. “That is one of the fundamentals of kindergarten. And you do that by sharing toys and by sharing experiences and making up rules together that you can all live with.”

Yet in recent years, as schools are pressured to ace standardized tests, recess and playtime have been squeezed out of daily school schedules for more “academic” pursuits. To take away playtime from a 5-year-old, McMullen said, schools might as well take away lunch. It’s that essential to learning.

“Brain research shows that if we enjoy something, positive emotion helps build those neural pathways a lot,” she said. And, she said, it does so “more quickly, more strongly than something that is boring, something that has a negative emotion.”

To people in the blogosphere and in legislative circles who are skeptical of the value of play as a learning tool — to those who might look at kindergarten and say the children spend too much time playing — McMullen is unapologetic:

“I would say, ‘Thank goodness. I hope they are.’ “


Written by Robert King, posted on indystar.com

What did you do at school?

September 22, 2010 - Leave a Response

Every parent knows there are only two answers to the question, “What did you do at school?”

“Nothing.”

or

“I don’t know.”

The truth is that a lot happens during the day at preschool.  Our daily routine includes literacy, math and science activities, art projects, music, and playing outside.  We take walks in the neighborhood, learn about fire safety, estimate the weight of a pumpkin, and make predictions about seed growth.  The first few weeks of school are the critical period for learning teachers’ expectations and how to get along with classmates.

Our daily curriculum is informed by the children’s interests.  Underlying all of our activities are the guidelines detailed in the NJ Preschool Teaching and Learning Standards of Quality provided by the NJ Department of Education.  This document is a little bulky but I will do my best to break down the categories for you month by month.

Our initial focus at the beginning of the school year are the goals for Social/Emotional Development.

Standard 1: Children demonstrate self-confidence.

Standard 2: Children demonstrate self-direction

Standard 3: Children identify & express feelings.

Standard 4: Children exhibit positive interactions with other children and adults.

Standard 5: Children exhibit pro-social behaviors.

If you listen carefully and look around the room, you’ll see evidence of the many ways teachers support the social and emotional development of the children.  We notice when children achieve their goals by reinforcing, “You did it all by yourself!”  We encourage children to try again or try a different strategy when they start to feel frustrated.  We ask children to look at each other’s faces when they have a conflict to identify how the other person is feeling.  We spend time in meaningful conversation with the children every day, in order to model pro-social behaviors and conversation skills.

A child’s social and emotional development provides a foundation for later academic learning.  Relationships with adults and peers exert a powerful influence on children’s overall development.  The goals we set for children during this phase of their life will follow them through every stage of life.

the first day of school.

September 7, 2010 - Leave a Response

Starting school can be a complex and emotional time for children and their parents.  Some children say goodbye on the first day of school and never look back.  Others seem fine at first, but experience feelings of anxiety or sadness weeks after they begin school.  Still others seems as though they will never be OK without a parent nearby.  Parents may also experience mixed feelings: excitement, sadness, concern.  It’s important to remember that the feelings and the process may differ from family to family, but the goal of having our children feel safe and secure when saying goodbye, is one we all share.

What allows a child to gently move into a new environment is a feeling of connectedness.  This connection can be with a teacher, other children or a pet or object in the class.  Teachers and parents can help establish a connection.  Bringing a family picture or a “lovie” to keep in the cubby helps some children.  Sometimes, handing the child something from your purse or pocket to keep until you return, can be reassuring.

If a parent would like to stay in the class until the child feels comfortable, they can encourage the child to ask the teacher for help when needed.  The child may alternate between exploring and then checking in with the parent.  The parent can respond to the child and then encourage him/her to return to playing.  Parents may notice that transitions are stressful for children (clean up, snack, etc.).  Teachers are prepared to ease children through these times using songs, poems, or finger plays.

The decision of when to leave should be made with the teacher’s help.  The most important thing is to always say goodbye before leaving.  Although it might seem like sneaking out will be less painful for the child, the opposite is usually true.  If a child feels that when they turn their back a parent might leave, they may not let the parent out of their sight.  Our experience is that a brief goodbye with the reassurance that the parent will be back later, works best.  Also reassure the child that the teachers are there to take care of him/her.  Teachers will help with snack, lunch, the bathroom, etc.

Saying goodbye but not leaving can send a confusing message to a child.  The child may pick up on a parent’s ambivalence and feel more nervous.  Teachers are well-prepared to help a sad, crying or angry child after a parent leaves.  And the office is always open to help a sad, crying or angry parent!  Feel free to call or email during the day to check on your child’s progress.

The first day of school can be a very emotional time, and the separation process is different for everyone.  Our teachers have supported many families in this process, and we’re here to help you, too!

just playing.

July 21, 2009 - Leave a Response

Many people wonder what happens during a typical day at preschool.  Are the children “just playing”?  The answer is yes and no.  

Our curriculum is based on the belief that children are children, not little adults.  Learning is a process that unfolds as children interact with their environment.  Children have the opportunity to test their theories, learn social norms, and develop various learning modalities in a safe and meaningful way.  They construct meaning about the world as their understanding grows with each experiment.

As we enter the Early Childhood classroom we see children engaged in a variety of activities that form the foundation for later learning.  Children pouring sand from one container to the next gain experience with volume.  Block building can be an introduction to geometry as well as physics, as children construct ramps to race their toy cars.  The dramatic play area may become a restaurant where children practice emerging writing skills by taking orders from “the customer.”  Teachers can provoke children’s imagination by introducing abstract materials into different learning centers; this is an early step in growing through concrete reasoning into symbolic representation.

It’s important to remember that learning is a process.  We can provide an environment that supports children’s innate curiosity and drive to learn.  And we can have fun doing it.

Open House

June 22, 2009 - Leave a Response

Saturday June 27th, 9:00am to 1:00pm

Meet the teachers

Visit the classrooms

Join the community

 

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561 Springfield Avenue | Summit, NJ 07901                                 908.277.4400

*Entrance and parking on New England Avenue.

Open House

March 9, 2009 - Leave a Response

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Join us at our Open House on Monday, March 16th.  Tour our beautiful school facility, meet our director, and learn more about our unique approach to early childhood education.  

Where:     The Cornerstone School

                    561 Springfield Avenue, Summit.

When:    Monday March 16th,

                  12:30 – 2:00PM, 6:30 – 8:00 PM

Please call our director Marybeth Doctor at 908.277.4400 or email info@CornerstoneKids.org.  

We look forward to seeing you there!

childhood.

February 6, 2009 - Leave a Response

Know you what it is to be a child?

It is to believe in love, to believe in loveliness, to believe in belief…

it is to turn pumpkins into coaches,

and mice into horses,

lowness into loftiness, and

nothing into everything.

 

~Francis Thompson

Open House February 5th

February 3, 2009 - Leave a Response

The Cornerstone School of Summit, NJ, is hosting an Open House for families on Thursday February 5th. Cornerstone is a dynamic, new Preschool and Kindergarten opening at Christ Church in September 2009. We promote the development of the whole child through a curriculum that ignites curiosity, inspires creativity, and promotes character. Come meet the director and tour our premier facility at the Open House.

Cornerstone is an interfaith school where all families are welcome and all faiths and cultures are valued, knowing that our community is strengthened and energized by the breadth of our experiences. We offer flexible options that meet the needs of modern families. The Cornerstone School is now enrolling students for Nursery, Pre-K, and Kindergarten programs. Contact school director Marybeth Doctor at preschool@ccsnj.org or call 908.277.4400.

WHAT:   The Cornerstone School Open House
WHEN:   Thursday, February 5th
8:30 – 10:00am and 7:00 – 8:30pm
WHERE:  The Cornerstone School
Join us in the atrium of Christ Church at 561 Springfield Avenue, Summit, NJ. 

Entrance and parking on New England Avenue.

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